How old is too old to have a baby? I was recently on a message board where one lady said it was unrealistic to have a baby at age 39. My mom says I should plan to be done by age 35. I know ME1 has some thoughts on this...but what does everyone else think? Am I in the minority when I think you should just keep trying if that's what you want to do (and there are no obvious medical issues to worry about)?