Don't worry ME2
The Marriage article I referenced here also said that: "And yes, it’s quite fine to talk about your children when you’re spending your time together, because, after all, your children are one of the most important connections you have in your relationship." Just through in several of those "60 second cuddles" she mentions and you will be golden. And well on your way to baby number two! Err, well that will take more than just a 60 second cuddle.
Does this mean there's a viewing of Master and Commander in your future? For inspirational purposes only that is.